Dear JohnMichael,
It's finally here. It's the 25th anniversary of your arrival on the planet. I now feel like I can exhale the breath I've been holding since you were born. It sounds strange now, but I never imagined you'd be here to celebrate this day. That's something we've talked about before. I can honestly say that I am delighted that you are here to celebrate your quarter-century birthday.
I am proud of you. I am proud of the man you are becoming. You've never disappointed me, never let me down, and never been anything less than perfection. You're not perfect, and I do not expect you to be. When I say that you are perfection, it is to say that you are exactly who you are–no apologies, no regrets. That is perfection, and it is all I ever hoped for you. That doesn't mean I always agree with your choices or behaviors, but I love you despite them. No matter how tense things get or how much we butt heads, you are and will always be my favorite human.
I know it hasn't always been easy for you. Sometimes it's because of circumstances, and sometimes it's my fault, and sometimes yours. I hope that as you get older and reflect, you will discover more good times than bad, more laughter than tears, and more love than sadness. I want you to know that you will always have my support as you forge your own path. And, if you have to make course corrections or changes, you have my support then too. You have the strength and determination to accomplish all you want to do.
I've been watching you chase your passion for a few years now, and you never fail to surprise me. The determination, courage, persistence, and sheer tenacity with which you pursue the jiu-jitsu lifestyle is inspirational. This year, I've seen you make decisions to do what you need to do now to do what you want later. I hope you understand how much pride and delight that brings me. You have the wisdom and willingness to make difficult decisions and sacrifices.
Like all the others before it and all the ones still to come, my birthday wish for you is that your life is everything you want it to be. I wish you love, happiness, and an infinite supply of laughter. I wish for you a tribe - no matter how scattered or dissimilar they are — a tribe of people who will celebrate you, support you, and encourage you no matter how crazy your dream, scheme, or plan may seem.
As you continue to follow your passion, your life will lead you on new adventures to new places. I hope you know that I am cheering you on wherever you are. And I hope you remember that wherever I am, I love you to the universe and back. No matter what.
Happy 25th Birthday, Mikey!
Love, Mom
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