Just about everyone I know has heard the story of JM's conception.
There are no lurid details to share; it was a date on the calendar and
two trips to the hospital. And it is not without its comical anecdotes. Most people also know that my son is the creation of my egg and donor
sperm. This was never big news and we were always matter of fact and
grateful about it. With one major exception...we never told JM; at least
not until recently.
When JM learned the truth he had two reactions. First, it was no
big deal but he went silent - it was a lot to process. Then he became
curious. He asked me for information on the donor and whether or not he
had siblings. I answered what I could and offered to find out the rest.
I hope you're sitting down...JM has four half-sisters and two
half-brothers; the two boys and one of the girls are in contact with each
other. The three of them are now curious about him and want to meet him
and get to know us. JM is both excited, and a little unnerved. One of his
sisters has already been in touch, texting him "a million questions."
She has told him about both brothers and shared pictures.
Apparently she and one of the boys have already made plans to meet in TX
next summer before heading to CA. When JM finds out, they won't be able
to leave for CA without him!
I love that my kiddo has siblings - he's always wanted lots of
brothers and sisters. Meeting them will be an amazing thing for all of
us. And here we go, off on another adventure!
